How To Receive This Page

First, don’t just read it. This iz more than a webpage, it's a healing INperience.

Give yourself the time and dedicated space you require to truly flow with and open into this invitation and all it inspires in and for You.

Save this page now and come back to it when you’ve cleared your mind and surroundings for You and only You.

Take off your bra, put your feet up and get a cup of your favorite tea or wine ready to sip on…

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Take it SLOW

Leave the music On or Off

Know that this Sistahood iz devoted to YOU whether or not you choose to join us

Take this invitation in all at once
or leave and come back to it a little at a time

Come wiggle your toes in the waters we’ve nurtured

This iz YOUR Invitation

Sista, have you been longing to be truly and deeply Seen, Supported and Celebrated for ALL that You are?

We know that Afrakan wombn are among the most disrespected people everywhere we are in this world. We top the world’s charts in death, dis-ease and victimization, year after year.

Looking upon ourselves, not with the world’s eyes, but with our own softened by the sweetness of familiarity; we can also recognize that sistas like us all over the world are also the most defiantly self-adoring, relentlessly industrious and Orgasmically creative beings who’ve ever lived!

It’s the sly poison of oppression that it tricks us into wearing the toxic projections of its inferiority like second skins that hold us weighted down and distracted by hyper-vigilance. These false skins largely blind us to our infinite Magnificence, which iz now and ever has been, nonetheless relentless. Liberation means making ourselves immune to these toxins, not just once but as continuously as the wars waged against us.

Be Richly Supported

We Afrakan wombn carry so much for so many outside of ourselves. We carry the weight of keeping our families, our communities and our relationships healthy and whole. We continually bear the compounding pressures of self-sufficiency, motherhood, career, wife-ing, ever-present anti-Blackness and misogynoir largely on our own.

That ain’t the way it's meant to be.

You deserve and your best life requires the solace of continually being seen, claimed, cared for and Loved first and loudest. You are entitled to grounded and wholly activated, spaces of healing exclusively your own to fall and break wide open when you need to. And then, in the supporting arms of your Sistas, rise from the ashes again and again and again.

Reclaim Your Rage

Rage iz ugly
Rage iz out of control
Rage iz violent
Rage iz scary
Rage iz crazy
Rage iz unspiritual
Rage iz unnecessary
Rage iz unladylike
Rage has to be put in check

The attempted theft of our Rage has been the primary weapon of subjugation used against us, worldwide. We suppress and revile this Sacred Fire because that’s what religion, custom and law enforcement tells us to do.

But what if our un-swallowed, wholly felt and consciously articulated Rage iz our most potent medicine for healing our bodies, our minds and our lives? What if making deliberate room for your Rage iz your greatest life and world redefining magik?

Actually, ain’t no ifs about it.

Your Liberated Rage iz a vital and sacred key to realizing your whole self Liberation & Sovereignty in a world that’s addicted to your invisibility. 500+ blood-soaked years of the pathology of whiteness and its imperialist capitalist heteropatriarchy has NOT succeeded.

Our Rage lives on.

Our Rage iz Truth, our Rage iz Justice, our Rage iz Beautiful, our Rage iz the Orgasmic and unconditional reclamation of our Divinity. Afrakan wombns wholly owned Rage iz pure, conscious Creation Power that, when mastered, will reveal and relentlessly clear the path to our individual and collective Bliss.

Reveal Your Sovereignty

Too many of us are suffering from the dogmas that sell us on the piety of ideas that keep us trapped in spiritual confinement. No one can stand in Oneness with their Divinity while carrying the back-breaking weight of shame, humility and subservience.

We reveal our Supreme Power ~ our Sovereignty ~ by creating and maintaining a rock solid recognition of our ever present Divinity.

Here in Sanctuary, we define Sovereignty as your ability to confidently reveal and maintain your natural place as the Center and sole purpose of your world view. Only from this fully owned and occupied Center are we able to properly appreciate the dynamic and ever unfolding connections we share with all life. Only from this center can we genuinely Liberate, Lead and Serve from the totality of our Divine Authority.

We carry a great and proud ancestral lineage that stretches beyond and will outlive the pathology of whiteness, colonialism, patriarchy and all that seeks to oppress us. We Afrakan Wombn are infinitely Sexy, Ingenious, Passionate, Playful, Joyous, Intuitive and Life Giving…We Are Born To Lead.

Lead From Your Mastery

“Leadership Training” — The phrase immediately tightens the intestines and conjures up visions of packed conference rooms fueled by white male bravado. For too damn long our concepts of leadership, mastery and success have been defined by the predatory mindset and tactics that have formed the basis of our oppression. Still, in the name of “making it”, time and again we subject ourselves to these environments that have never even considered or accounted for our existence, let alone our excellence as Afrakan wombn.

Mastery iz not something you learn or obtain, it’s already alive and calling for revelation within the Beautiful, Black essence of you.

We can make it  without surrendering our Divine right of visibility.

Any success or leadership strategy that reacquires you to “tone down”  your Blackness, your wombn-ness or your sensitivity in deference to crude pretenses of hierarchy; will always be tragically incomplete and ultimately toxic. The revelation and enjoyment of your Mastery requires that you live and breathe in the full, unapologetic Magnificence of your Ancestral birthright.

Unleash Your JOY!

Sista, we know and affirm that you are unconditionally deserving of a life of unceasing, ever-titillating, Orgasmic Bliss!

Now we ain’t talkin bout no see-no-evil, spiritual, e•motional, sexual and political total bypass B.S. We leave that bleached-out pathology for the ones who spawned it to clean up.

Afrakan wombn have long practiced traditions of revealing Joy, not by becoming blind to the shit and piss of the world but by devoting ourselves transforming it.

Your unchained, liberated, purposefully lavish and sovereign Joy iz the spiritual fire that opens you to wield your unique Power that dispels and destroys all that would confine you. Cultivating an intimate, devotional relationship with the sacredness of your Joy will transform and elevate every aspect of your Life, Love and Mission.

See for yourself what happens when WE as Afrakan wombn, dare to reveal the Truth of ourselves and only Ourselves,

as the Center and Substance of All we Live, Love and Lead the way for!

Of course you’re a warrior.

There are parts of our world that are hellbent on selling you their ideas of you as “lesser than”. Your blood, your sex, your voice, your beauty and your genius can never be appreciated by the people and systems that live off your degradation. As an Afrakan wombn, you live, work, grow and create under global and nearly constant, physical, mental and e•motional siege.

Still, you go on shining!

You’re a survivor
a victorious, ever-sovereign, Sista, Mother, Daughter, Queen.

Daily, weapons of mass distraction and annihilation are aimed and fired at you
and every day that you Smile, Love, Heal and Lead from your Truth -

You. Beat. Them.

You are always defying the odds stacked against you. And you do it with a natural grace that doesn’t require perfection. You don’t always win. Some defeats you suffer so deeply and repeatedly, that you feel they will break you to your soul.

And even in those blinding depths of pain and sorrow, still you dare to carry within you, a Vision of ultimate victory so rich with feeling that it propels you to continually defy every obstacle to its Magnificent revelation.

A Warrior…

Fights to define for herself what it means to be free

Knows how to live with both terror and wonder

Masters the weapons of destruction and creation at her disposal

Knows that, unless she allows it, nothing and no one can hold her back

Owns her life, all of it and moves through it as she pleases, without apology

Allows herself to dance, curse, weep and create with every fiber of her being

Knows that all acts of Love, Purpose and Pleasure are miracles we chose and create

How We Sanctuary

Healing the weight of generational and right now violence and internal and external oppression ain’t no quick fix proposition. Our Healing Home operates in/as an emergent curriculum that iz perpetual and never-ending because that’s the exact nature of our needs. As a Sistahood, we meet and powerfully Love on one another, adapting to wherever we are in this healing.

We are devoted to actively co-creating an environment for You that iz Immediately Intimate, Revelation Driven and that provides continual, Immersive Healing and Full Spectrum Support for you to create and sustain:

Authentic and Wholly Satisfying Love and Intimacy

Spiritually and Materially Secure and Relaxed Success on Your Terms

 Shameless Undeniable Poise, Projection and Power

In All You Iz and Do

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We do this through several tried and true, high impact yet easily accessible means…

She Ready!(?)

For most of us,

readiness iz a myth.

Afrakan wombn, mother, Nubian-Khamite priest, master revealer, Bliss warrior, life mastery mentor and founding birth mother of Sanctuary.

For over 28 years, it’s been my Blessing to guide devoted Leaders and Lovers into their own expressions of Orgasmic Life Mastery. We may have met before on one of many radio or podcast shows, or in the DVD Magdalene Unveiled: the Ancient & Modern Sacred Prostitute, by Kenneth Ray Stubbs, or in the book Reclaiming Eros: Sacred Whores and Healers, by Suzanne Blackburn and Margaret Wade.

Before I became a priest and spiritual mentor, I was a wombn desperately trying, but ever-failing, to hide and run away from the multiple traumas of childhood abuse, addiction, rape and chronic dis-ease. I suffered from CPTSD for decades before I learned there was a name for my pain. I believed my brokenness came from being “just weak-minded”. I spent every day encased in a cloud of pain that, at a time of life when most are planning for their future, had me waiting to die instead. Bliss was an alien concept, hell, I didn't even know how to smile.

So, how did I go from being a timid, life phobic, self-loather to become the Divinely Intelligent, Vulvically Awakened, Orgasmic Liberation Warrior I IZ today?

I decided that I was more afraid of existing in the continued joyless captivity of pain, than I was of whatever I might find on the unknown other side of it. I sought and surrendered to the guidance of my spiritual mentor, Sen Ur Heru Ankh Ra Semahj Se Ptah. My Baba along with elders Mut Neferieth Amenetchi, Sen’t Ur’t Kaitha Het-Heru, Lady Prema, Puma Cat Dancing and Lester Loving; introduced me to the ancient Nubian-Khamite, whole self healing power of spiritual alkhamy. Through it I received the miracle of a Divine transfiguration that healed my wounds, gave me back my smile and restored my memory of my true identity in/as Bliss!

Witnessing and INsperiencing the unmatched Whole Self Liberating power of this masterfully held sacred container for healing first hand iz why I've made Liberation through Orgasmic Alkhamy the exclusive focus of my professional life as a spiritual mentor.

I believe stories of triumph over suffering, like mine, ought to be far less unique and uncommon. I continue to meet wombn after wombn doing her best to not just escape violence, fear, pain and confusion but also reclaim her luminosity to share her inspired mission with our world.

Individual self revelation iz vital but it ain’t the end all, be all, especially not for Afrakan wombn. True Liberation iz a contagion as infectious as wild fire. Your soul’s genuine awakening must call out to inspire others because It knows…

None of us iz free until all of us are free
None of us iz enlightened until all of us are enlightened
None of us iz rich until all of us are rich
None of us iz healed until all of us are healed
None of us iz family until all of us are family

This iz the ancient wisdom of our foremothers and the deepest magik we can master.
Awakening the wild, boundless fire of our Liberation iz sacred work that only We can do for one another ☥

 

Our Sanctuary iz not a place, that would be far too limiting.

The lasting Liberation we’re conjuring must be able to be invoked and commanded anywhere and everywhere We IZ.

Sanctuary iz a Verb!

This work iz a living action that takes hold in your blood and breath and goes out from your being to immediately transform any and all spaces you enter and occupy.

Individually and collectively – within our Sistahood and beyond – we join in Love to get our walk ON!

To leave oppression and the multiple pathologies that sustain it behind — gracefully, deliberately, in Truth, Compassion, Resurrection, Bliss and Sovereign Ease.

Will you mother Sanctuary with us?

Thank YOU Sista

for investing your time and attention to fully receive our vision and mission for Afrakan wombns Whole Self Liberation & Sovereignty.

If you still have questions or just need a witness to what this invitation iz igniting in you, Let’s talk.

You are Loved and deeply Treasured.

I pray we get the opportunity to meet, heal and evolve together ☥